Can't Love Without Giving
(Intimacy with God through Giving)
By Pastor Bong Saquing
GIVING. A progressive form of the verb GIVE.
The dictionary defines the word GIVE in such way: to make a present of.
Pause for a moment and ask yourself: "What kind of a giver am I?"
A stubborn giver?
A hesitant giver?
In 2 Corinthians 9:7, Paul writes down God's idea of a giver:
7 You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully
Noted author Rick Warren created a survey of the number of times certain words were used in the Bible. He came up with quite surprising results.
Believe/believes/believer= 275 times
Pray/prayer/prayed= 371 times
Love/lover/loves= 714 times
and the winner of the Word with the Most Verses is:
Give/giving= with a whopping 2,162 verses!
Why is this so? Why does the subject matter of GIVING have a lot to say compared to what we usually categorize as more important issues such as LOVE and PRAYER?
It's because by default, WE ARE NATURALLY SELFISH.
Think about it. When we were kids, we had this tendency not to share our toys. We usually fought with our siblings whenever they borrow our stuff. We hide that last piece of cookie by immediately stuffing it in our mouth.
Let's face it: we just don't like to share sometimes!
But it's vital for us to know that GIVING is one way of expressing our love for God!
How?
6 Remember this—a farmer who plants only a few seeds will get a small crop. But the one who plants generously will get a generous crop. 7 You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.”[a] 8 And God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have everything you need and plenty left over to share with others. 9 As the Scriptures say,
“They share freely and give generously to the poor.
Their good deeds will be remembered forever.”[b]
Their good deeds will be remembered forever.”[b]
10 For God is the one who provides seed for the farmer and then bread to eat. In the same way, he will provide and increase your resources and then produce a great harvest of generosity[c] in you.
11 Yes, you will be enriched in every way so that you can always be generous. And when we take your gifts to those who need them, they will thank God. 12 So two good things will result from this ministry of giving—the needs of the believers in Jerusalem[d] will be met, and they will joyfully express their thanks to God.
2 Corinthians 9:6-12
The idea of PARTNERSHIP enters the picture. How? As it is written in the verse, God is the Provider of the seeds. Our role, on the other hand, is to become the sowers of the seed He will give us. We are the ones responsible for the growth of the farm, the abundance of crops and such. You may ask: "What seeds? As in real seeds?"
This seeds can be MONEY, TIME, OPPORTUNITIES and the likes. Our job is to sow them properly or in non-farmer speak, to make use of them responsibly. For example, that excess allowance money from Mom and Dad need not be spent on things we don't actually need. If we have more than enough clothes, it's best to postpone that shopping spree and spend that money on things that matter. Why not treat Mom or Dad? Give it back to God? :)
If we are faithful as partners with God, there's a guarantee that He will lead us to the proper way. Giving our time to Him is basically an act of worship and thanksgiving. If we are willing to be His partners, we have to accept the fact that God knows what He's doing, even if we don't understand! If He tells us to give, then we should!
Sometimes, we are hesitant to give and surrender what we have to God. We're afraid that if we give it, we might run out. Our needs will become short and eventually, we will regret giving. But Jesus did say that we shouldn't store treasures here on Earth!
19 “Don’t store up treasures here on earth, where moths eat them and rust destroys them, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. 21 Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.
This seeds can be MONEY, TIME, OPPORTUNITIES and the likes. Our job is to sow them properly or in non-farmer speak, to make use of them responsibly. For example, that excess allowance money from Mom and Dad need not be spent on things we don't actually need. If we have more than enough clothes, it's best to postpone that shopping spree and spend that money on things that matter. Why not treat Mom or Dad? Give it back to God? :)
If we are faithful as partners with God, there's a guarantee that He will lead us to the proper way. Giving our time to Him is basically an act of worship and thanksgiving. If we are willing to be His partners, we have to accept the fact that God knows what He's doing, even if we don't understand! If He tells us to give, then we should!
Sometimes, we are hesitant to give and surrender what we have to God. We're afraid that if we give it, we might run out. Our needs will become short and eventually, we will regret giving. But Jesus did say that we shouldn't store treasures here on Earth!
19 “Don’t store up treasures here on earth, where moths eat them and rust destroys them, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. 21 Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.
Matthew 6:19-21
We are easily distracted with the things this world has to offer, especially when it comes to the power of money. When we are desperate to buy the coolest clothes or gadgets in order to please the people around us, we are surely focused on this world. We will always feel as if we don't have enough and we need to buy MORE!
Focus your eyes on God, instead! Believe that God will take care of you and that He has the best plans! Rather than worry ourselves silly with the petty things, we should believe that God will provide what we need when we need it!
25 “That is why I tell you not to worry about everyday life—whether you have enough food and drink, or enough clothes to wear. Isn’t life more than food, and your body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds. They don’t plant or harvest or store food in barns, for your heavenly Father feeds them. And aren’t you far more valuable to him than they are?
Matthew 6:25-26
As it is written in Matthew 6:33, let us seek God!
Unfortunately for us, we are sometimes faced with problems that can distract us from focusing on Him:
- We tend to forget that we are only stewards of his riches
- We struggle because our worries become bigger than God. If we don't care, who will? :<
- We give reluctantly instead of giving cheerfully
- We become clouded with absurd thoughts which eventually leads us to make wrong decisions
When these matters happen, we have to try to fight it off! Everyday, we have to remind ourselves that we are God's partners and that everything we have belongs to Him.. Our school, allowance, clothes-EVERYTHING!
For a better partnership with God, we must understand three important things:
- We should lay treasures in heaven
- Be worry free! (Always GV, alright? = >)
-Seek God's kingdom and righteousness!
When you have God as your partner, the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords, rest assured, THE IMPOSSIBLE WILL BECOME POSSIBLE! ;D
Remember, it's not about the money! Ain't about the cha-ching! It's all about GOD!




